Men love to ask this question. It has always confused me. What do you mean, “Why don’t I have a man?” If I knew the answer to that, guess what? I’d probably have a man! Now of course, sometimes, we women prefer to be single. It’s always important to have that personal time for self- exploration and independence, but for the most part, humans dig companionship. We are communal creatures, and that is just the way it is.
So the last time a man asked me this question – I asked my girl, why the heck do men always ask that??? It's like going on a job interview and them asking that stupid question, “What is your biggest fault?” [I’ve always hated that question. Makes me feel like they are trying to “Freud” me out and mess with my mental.] Anyhoo - The response she gave made perfect sense: “Because, they want to know why a pretty, smart, successful woman is still single. They are thinking that you should be ‘wifed up’ by now, and they are trying to figure out your defect.” Light bulb moment!
